The Gift of Listening: Kids Talk More When We Listen with "Dr. Phil"
“Kids talk more when we listen to them.”
All of us want to raise confident kids.
The kids who will grow-up to be secure adults, with healthy relationships and meaningful lives.
It starts EARLY and it's FREE.
We can teach our kids how much they matter, when we listen to what they say. We don't have to agree, and we don't have to meet their demands - but when we turn to kids to listen to their words, we send them a powerful message. We show them how much they matter, and how much we value their communication with us. If we do this, we can "keep kids talking" and we can plant values of self-esteem and self-expression.
These values, planted early and often, can spring into big kids, and young adults with self-worth. So they know that stutter or no stutter, they are intrinsically worthwhile. The world will listen to what they have to say and value it. We do that by showing them that WE listen and WE care and value what they say. This will build their self-esteem and their courage.
Two principles:
1- Good listening is good loving. We hear them and acknowledge that we WANT to hear what they have to say.
2- We need to work on honoring the essence of the message our children are putting out to us. Stuttering is the surface. Beneath that, they want to connect to us and share their experiences with us. We need to honor that so they always feel comfortable speaking with us.
Click below to listen to the podcast - with Peter Reitzes of Stuttertalk.com
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